Hey Willie, I totally sympathise with what you're going through, the last few months my mum has been showing signs of dementia, so in a sense it's a bit of a blessing in disguise, still hurts

My mum nursed her mum through dementia for 5-6 years, we helped on occasion, once looking after her for 2 weeks to give my mum a break, it's heart breaking to see.
I had been working on a pedal steel version of Samba Pa Ti (Santana) for mothers day. I'll finish that off. I'll probably write something for her eventually, but it'll have to be up to her standard
Thanks Nick, my mums side of the family was musical going back a few generations, playing Scottish Country Music around the halls mainly in Fife. Looking back over old photos, she always looked most happy sitting behind a piano backing singers. I'd never give up playing, I'm sure all here will understand that when it's in your bones it has to find a way out. My mother played up until a few years ago, just in the house with friends, but the last few years she was unfortunately affected by arthritis.
I'd like to thank everyone again for your kind words, I've grown to really appreciate this forum, there is so much musical talent here but what really makes it special is the helpful attitude of the members. Sometimes it gets a bit 'ornery, but that just adds to the flavour, and TBH I'm turning into a grumpy old man myself, (my wife would say it's already too late)