Hmmm yeah, its a difficult one Billy, always a bit of a dilema, and has happened to me on numerous occasions, couple of times even last month, im working with a band, who formed just 4/5 months ago, and our bandleader is working hard at establishing and getting bookings, bearing in mind it is a six piece, it is not easy to fill the book, so we all have various irons in the fire, ie duo gigs etc, whereas, myself, i freelance a lot, with several different acts, as part of two duo's or a 5 piece wedding band, and dates obviously will clash from time to time, and though its the ideal situation, to say once you have taken a booking, honour it, my take is different to yours, my number one commitment is with the 6 pce country band, but i freelance with any other takers, on the express understanding, that if my main band do take a booking, i have to go with that, i have had to pull out of two dep gigs last months, that originally i could do, i dont like doing it, but you cant be in two places at one time, do you choose to stay with the wedding band dep job, with the band you might play twice with in a year, or do you go with your own band who you might play with countless times a year, and do weekly rehearsals, no contest, as long as you make it clear to the dep band, that if anything with the regular band comes up, you will have to go with that, you cant just operate first come first served, but i know its not easy either way, but i would rather have two takers for a night than none, good thread Mr. M. as always, Eddie